Just one thing
When you have an unexpected variation occur (less charitable people might refer to this as a mistake) what do you do?
If you’re like most people, you might do a bunch of things all at once. You wince, you stop playing, you look at your hands, you look at your harp, you look at the music, you look at your teacher (or other audience), and you panic a little.
And then you might try to fix everything – all at once. But is this the best thing to do? Probably not. Because what’s the most important thing to come away from a mistake with?
The lesson that was buried in it.
To learn the lessons the “variation” can teach you, you need to unpack it from all the detritus in which you found it. And to do that, you have to look at each thing – just one thing at a time.
What things are you going to look at? Well you need to know how you ended up there. Were you going too fast? Was your fingering not solid? Did you lose focus? What happened once you ended up there? Was it a trainwreck or were you just off a little? Did you know where you were? Were you able to quickly determine what happened or were you completely lost? Were you surprised or did you know it was coming and were hoping you could ride it out? Did you have a solution immediately or did you need to figure a bunch of stuff out?
Of course, there are a nearly infinite pool of possible questions but to get at the answers, try to answer one question at a time – don’t try to solve everything at once. Parse the problem and identify solutions. And then go from there. The solution for going too fast is a very different than for losing focus, for example.
So, the next time you have an “opportunity to excel” try doing one thing at a time in pursuit of an answer or a way forward. Stop! Don’t move. Be still. Rather than be a flurry of activity, take a breath. Because being a flurry of activity works well – until it doesn’t and something doesn’t go right. Now you can think, observe, and assess what’s happened.
Give it a try yourself – it does take a little practice to pause, but that gets you time to replay in your mind’s ear what you heard and feel where you are in space. Commit to only doing one thing to get your bearings! Don’t fall prey to the impulse to fix everything – because you probably don’t know what is wrong, so how can you fix it? If you forge ahead you’ll just confuse yourself and make it more difficult to find the solution.
Next time you find you’re in a “variation” give yourself a beat to stop, be still, think, and decide what to fix first. Give it a try and let me know what you learn in the comments!










