I’ll be Bach

I recently started reading daily posts from Arnold Schwarzenegger – known for his movie line,

“I’ll be Bach” 

What do you mean that’s not what he said?

I’m impressed with him because he demonstrates a single-minded focus on achieving things he thinks are important.  Now, whether you agree with him on his choices or not, it’s difficult to argue with his successes.  I admire that he works hard, doesn’t pretend that the work isn’t work, faces challenges head on, thinks before acting, owns his successes, moves onto other goals once he has achieved the current goals, and is relentlessly upbeat (sound familiar?)*.  I’m pretty sure that if he had an interest in playing an instrument, he’d be quite good at it – for all the same reasons.

But the one thread to which he frequently returns is the importance of consistency.  He champions the reality that, no matter what your focus (weightlifting, acting, authoring, playing an instrument) you have to put in not just hard work but consistent hard work.  He highlights that it is the small gains that accrue day after day that are behind success.  And that these daily small achievements build on each other to become what we often think of as “real success” – achieving big goals. 

He doesn’t discount that these small daily increments are sometimes challenging to detect. What does he suggest? Capturing them (dare I say, in some sort of journal?). Why didn’t I say that (except maybe here, here, here, and here)?!

Consistency doesn’t have to be huge, BTW.  Consistency is exactly what it sounds like – do small things with extreme regularity.  It means practicing every day.  Making some routine for your time at the harp so that you can complete the consistent behavior.  Acknowledging that you have been consistent (whether that’s giving yourself stars on a wall chart or giving yourself a cookie – well, that’s up to you!).  And don’t forget being grateful for the outcome of consistent small progress.

You can become consistent by making the commitment to yourself.  You can help yourself along with a calendar reminder, a schedule, a process, a cookie (if needed. I’m sure I’m not the only one that is big on external rewards!). Keep in mind that consistent is not the same as perfect.  If you mess up or get sidetracked, don’t beat yourself up, just get back on it – consistently.  You don’t need excuses, just get back to it.  If it helps, at the end of each practice session, tell your harp, “I’ll be Bach”.Could you benefit from increased consistency?  What do you do to keep consistent?  What might help you to be more consistent?  Let me know in the comments!

* if you want a daily dose of relentless optimism that’s nearly as relentless and almost as optimistic as this blog, you can get it from Arnold here in his latest thing of bringing positivity to the internet.  Not an affiliate, just a fan.

OSAS 45th Anniversary

OSAS has started for the 45th year!  It’s a very exciting time and I’m thrilled some of you are here! It is such a pleasure to be teaching with Corrina Hewat, Haley Hewitt, and Allison Miller! And it might go without saying what a privilege it is to teach such fun, motivated, engaged and engaging students!

As usual, I have taken no photos, but Therese Honey has graciously shared some she took today.  Now to be fair, we’ve only been at it for one day, so maybe I’ll have more later.  But you know me – I’d rather be playing and laughing then taking pictures  – so maybe not.

Here are the classes – and we’re just getting started!

OSAS 2023 Novices

The Novices might be small, but they are mighty!

OSAS 2023 Apprentices

Apprentices take on the tunes…

OSAS 2023 Jounrneymen

Journeymen are expanding their horizons….and their repertoires.

 

OSAS 2023 Master Class

Masters are always ready to take on another tune!

OSAS 2023 Teahers

It is not possible to ask for a better group of people to teach with.

I am so very lucky to do this work.  If you are even slightly waffling about coming next year – just do! 

 

Makin’ a List

Makin’ a List

Since the end of the year is coming, many people are spending a moment taking stock (which is a great idea, BTW!).  My own led to a list of random thoughts that I, of course, felt compelled to share with you!

1. If you need gift ideas (or hints?) I stand by this list for ideas. I should have added index cards to keep a running collection of tunes you have learned (I talk about that here).

2. Regardless of whether you play for your own edification, the cat and the curtains, your church, paid audiences, or you’re opening for the Rolling Stones, never lose sight of the reality that you not only have a gift, but you sharing that gift with others simply magnifies it. Playing music is never a waste of time or resources.

3. Take care of you. Beyond basic self-care, never play through pain or in pain.  Use good techniques, use the tools your teachers have shared with you – placing, fingering, posture, etc.  But no matter how long you practice each day, there are still the habits of the other hours of your day that can gang up on you – darn day job!  If you are developing discomfort or if you have allowed that discomfort to grown into pain, of if something else is impinging on your playing (I’m looking at you desk job keyboard un- functional posture) seek help from a Certified Music Ergonomist – like me*!

4. Take time to enjoy. Even as the hustle and bustle, the premanufactured stress of the season, the actual stress of life, and the chores pile up – you play the harp!  Play the tunes you like (or those that come easily to you).  Really listen, feel, and resonate with your instrument and draw some peace to you, in you, and around you.  If it’s midnight and you’re keyed up, sit for just a moment and put a little disturbance into the air.  Let the ick of stress, etc., ride those sound waves right out of you!

5. Is it possible to say thank you enough? I doubt it.  So, sincerely, thank you for sharing your year with me.  I really enjoy your thoughts, observations, and comments, and I remain delighted and grateful for you and your willingness to share!

Told you, just a jumble of thoughts.  What’s on your list?  Let me know in the comments!

 

 

* Shameless plug.  But seriously, if not me, let me point you in the right direction~

Happy Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving isn’t really a harp holiday – or even a music holiday.

Happy Thankgsiving!It is a great time to think about our blessings as harp players – we are so fortunate!  We play a forgiving instrument that gives us pleasure.  Harp also allows us to share with others.  And let’s be frank – we play an instrument that doesn’t ever sound like a constipated goose fighting with a cat in heat!  That’s an awful lot for which to be thankful!

But wait, there’s more!  We are part of an incredible community of like-minded musicians.  We know loads of tunes!  And we have opportunities to play together, even when we’re apart.  And it’s relatively easy to play – no matter how many slices of pie you have!

So I hope you have a lovely Thanksgiving and can take a moment to be glad of all the gifts our harps bring us.  One thing for which I am thankful?  You sharing your valuable time with me here each week! 

What are you thankful for?  Share in the comments –

 

Practice Gratitude

I hear that we should all be practicing gratitude.  Especially now.  The sentiment seems to be everywhere. 

But I’ve heard it so much that my mind started bending it a little – shifting the emphasis.  I can’t hear it the way everyone means anymore because in my head it’s:

PRACTICE gratitude

As in, be grateful for your practice time.

Hmm.

Practice GratitudeWhy would we be grateful for practice time?  I can think of a few reasons:

  • It’s time we spend on ourselves to grow in an area we find important
  • It creates a little oasis of time in our otherwise busy days
  • It provides an element of normality when things around us are unpredictable or uncertain
  • It is a moment of self-development (and not a self-indulgence)

So, we can pretty much dispense with the any puerile comments on how we “have” to practice “again”.  Instead – we “get” to practice again!

Practice is clearly not only good for us, but something we want to do, no matter how it might not feel like it in the moment. How might we do that?  Here are 15 ways we can practice and enjoy the time and be grateful for our practice time:

  1. Enjoy the ritual of tuning. Rather than seeing it as a chore, take the time to slow down and reconnect with your instrument.
  2. Don’t waste your time doing garbage practice. When you’re practicing, focus.
  3. Don’t accept anything less than your best effort.
  4. When something is not coming, reframe that frustration as gratitude for the opportunity to learn.
  5. Enjoy the little things – each time you practice, remind yourself of at least one thing you enjoy about playing.
  6. Take note – identify the progress you’re making and notice the improvement day on day.
  7. While you’re practicing – breathe!
  8. While you’re practicing – smile at least once.
  9. While you’re practicing – feel it. Enjoy the touch of the strings, the sound of the music, the feel of the harp as it vibrates on your shoulder.
  10. Practice with an aim to being able to share – this can be with your cohabitants, your neighbors, or the world at large – but keep it in mind.
  11. After you have worked on something particularly tough, whether you’ve gotten it or if it still needs some time – provide honest praise for the work. Yes, I mean tell yourself you did a good job!
  12. No matter how little time you have, end each practice with a tune you know and love and like to play.
  13. Take a moment in each practice session to tell yourself something you enjoyed or are grateful you can do.
  14. Take a moment at the end of your time to jot down what you’re grateful for in your practice journal.
  15. Find time to play every day.

I’m sure there are a zillion other ways we can be grateful for our practice time and express that gratitude.  What do you do to Practice Gratitude?  If you haven’t been having Practicing Gratitude, which of these will you start to get you on your way?  Let me know in the comments below!

Send a thank you note

As the year begins to draw to a close, you might want to take a moment to think about the reality that none of us makes music in a vacuum.  And maybe take a moment to thank your fan club.

Don’t think you have a fan club?  You probably do.  You may not know it.  Heck, they may not know they are your fan club.  But they are. 

Who are they?  All those people who support you as you develop and grow as a musician.  They include your family and friends.  Maybe your teacher, if you’re working with one.  Your friends who come to hear you play, even when your performance repertoire only includes Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, Frere Jacques, and Long, Long Ago.

And hopefully your fan club includes – you!

So, for an end of year activity, you should write a thank you note for all the members of your fan club.   It doesn’t need to be overly complex, but it does need to be heartfelt.  Make sure to include:

Open with their name – whatever you call that person. 

Be open with your thanks and express your appreciation for their support.  Be specific.  Did that person unfailingly make you tea after you practiced each day?  Did they tell you how good you sounded?  Did they pay for your lessons?  Did they teach you your lessons? State what you are grateful for.  A generic “thanks for helping me get there” is nice, but specifics will help share your deep appreciation of their efforts.

End by telling them how much their ongoing support means to you and your harp playing.  Don’t skimp!

Sign off – maybe with a flourish!  It is not possible to over-thank someone for their help in getting you where you are.  And if you can’t say it at Christmas, when can you.

Thank you for being part of my fan club.  I cannot express how much I value your comments and emails.  Or how grateful I am that you are so willing to share with me. Knowing you’re there, reading, makes it so much easier for me to write to you.  And I do picture you in my mind when I’m planning, drafting, and finalizing each post.  If it weren’t for you and your continued support, I’d have packed it in a long time ago.  I’m looking forward to the upcoming year – hope you are too!  Jen