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Monthly Archives: December 2023
As the year comes to an end
As the year comes to an end, it’s time to reflect and ask questions. I have been writing to you since 2009 (!) and I hope some of those topics have been interesting and informative. And I hope you know that I genuinely appreciate your taking the time to spend here.
So this week, I’d like to ask you to tell me what you’d like to know more about. What gives you trouble? What would you find interesting? What do you need to learn (or want to learn)? Anything you don’t want to know? Please (pretty please!) let me know your thoughts so we can talk about important stuff in the new year!
Just fill in the blanks with your brilliant thoughts and I will be ever so grateful. And, of course, you’re always welcome to use the comments!
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Gift Guide – Part B
Gift Guide – Part B
Last week we listed some gift ideas you could share with the people in your life who might ask what you would like to receive this holiday season. Now let’s flip the script. What gifts could you give from there on your bench?
Like any gift guide, this means matching the giving intention to the recipient and there are so many possibilities!
- You can play for your family. You might think that your family listens to you play every day so this wouldn’t be a good gift. But the reality is that they probably don’t listen to you practice. They might hear you, but they’re probably not listening. They will enjoy having a specific time to sit and actually listen to the fruits of your labors. They are, after all, your biggest supporters.
- Jane Austen is calling! There was a time when it was expected that each person would take their turn being entertaining for guests. Invite your supportive friends over and, as part of the time together, play for them. You’d be amazed how many of your friends don’t even know you play the harp, and how many of those who do know have never heard you play.
- Play for someone special. This can be as complicated or as simple as you want to make it. You have all the tools – just get out of your own way. Play the music you hear in your head. Don’t have a lot of noise going on up there? Stumped on where to start? Set your harp to C major and play only the white strings (thank you Marianna!) and diddle around. Run your recorder. Go back and listen, find what you like and put that stuff together. Practice that, toss in a left hand (hint – start with G) and boom! a handmade present!
- Give a concert. Why not! You need a venue (your living room?), an audience (friends, family, neighbors), and you need 3 to 20 tunes (depending on how long you want to perform). Add some “patter” (it is a show, you are the MC) and wine or tea and cookies and you’re in business. It doesn’t have to be Carnegie Hall, just play.
- Volunteer. Go to a nursing home or a rehab facility and play for them (or for the staff). You can do this anytime of year but the holidays seem like a good time to start (this does require a bit coordination, but so worth it).
It’s also amazing how good you’ll feel after sharing your gift of music. What else could you do with your harp to give someone a lovely gift? I’ve given you several ideas here, but I bet you have better ones – let me know in the comments.
Updated Gift Guide
Updated Gift Guide
It is holiday time and someone might ask you what you’d like to receive. A couple of years ago, I posted a Gift Guide and it’s that time again, so I thought I’d add to the list.
Don’t just go out and buy these things for yourself – leave them as gift opportunities! You can be very specific so you do receive what you want. It’s easy when you send a link and include the size, color, number with it! And your givers will be delighted to have gotten you something you are sure to enjoy.
Some things (including your suggestions):
- A nice, comfortable, packable performance dress. Preferably washable and flattering. And pockets! (gotta put your key somewhere while on stage!).
- A nice, comfortable pair of performance shoes to go with that dress.
- Memberships/Subscriptions to your favorite Harp Journals – Folk Harp Journal, American Harp Society, Harp Column, Scottish Harp Society of America
- Accessories bags. Corral your stuff in your harp case pocket or gig bag! A bag for your spare strings or your electronic tuner or your key. You need a place for your stand lamp, your cough drops, Kleenex, etc. Believe me, it’s easier to find stuff when you need it if it’s organized!
- Music sounds – cds, downloads, membership to some horrible-rip-off-streaming-service – we all learn better by listening. It’s also good to hear new-to-you music.
- Music paper – sheet music you’ve been drooling over but haven’t been able to justify buying? Here are some excellent choices!*
- Workshop or lessons – there are loads of workshops, summer schools, and getaways offered all over the country (actually the world). And lessons or coaching are always a good idea!
- Travel – What could be more fun than going on a cool trip – with me to a places known for harp?! Check out the 2024 itinerary here.*
- Tickets – few things are as exhilarating – or motivating – as attending a live performance!
- Cleaning supplies – whether you prefer a Swiffer or a soft bristle brush, put it on your list. You could get two, one for home and one to keep in your case.
- Harp jewelry – can you ever have too many harp necklaces or earrings? And you can support a small business while you’re at it. I’ve really enjoyed the things I’ve gotten from harpjewelry**
So, while you’re making your list and checking it twice, what else would make wonderful holiday gifts that you’d love to get? Let me know in the comments!
* Shameless plug! ** Unaffiliated, but if you’ve ever met me in person, you know I love my harp necklace!