In a previous episode we talked about what lessons are for (and what they’re not for) and a comment was made about learning going on forever. How true!
But you have to start somewhere. And we all have teachers. Even teachers have teachers! The question really is – which teacher do you need? Or perhaps more appropriately, which teacher do you need now?
Because we need different teachers for different stages of our harp life. These different teachers might all be housed in a single body, or you may move from one teacher to another. Or you might make a loop and eventually have the privilege of teaching your teacher! One important thing we’ve learned over the last two years is that we’re not constrained by geography any longer (which is excellent!) with teachers available online, you can learn a great deal. *
In your harp infancy, you need a Mother. A teacher who works with you to learn the things you need to know to be a competent harper without hurting yourself. This teacher gives you a foundation from which you can grow. You learn how to care for your harp, how to interact with it, and start to build a repertoire. Perhaps most importantly, the teacher initiates you into the tips and tricks that make playing easier (technique) and helps shape you into a musician. I think this is the most important thing people who are self-taught miss out on – these not so obvious things that make playing easier (Don’t worry self-taught people! You can get there too – read on!).
As you continue, you grow and your needs change. Once you’ve learned to play make sounds come out accurately, now you need a Professor. You are ready to learn the why for the things you do. It’s important for you to understand how your initial technique underpins more advanced skills, how all the elements are related, and to point out areas for focus to nudge your progress forward. And to corral you when you (inevitably) move backward a little – to help form you into a musician.
Then you are ready for a Coach. ** This shift is important because this is where you shoulder most of the burden of steering your own boat. Rather than sitting like a baby bird, mouth open waiting to be fed, you know enough to ask yourself questions – what is still weak? What is becoming your “signature”? What music do you want to learn? What music do you need to learn to fill in your repertoire? As the student, you push the envelope while your teacher helps you to structure your questions, honestly evaluate your feedback, constructively apply what you learn, provides suggestions for your continued growth, and helps you discover answers.
Finally, the Peer. This teacher is someone with whom you share the joy of playing – trading tunes, making suggestions (as needed), encouraging trying new things, and energizing you to keep on growing. This is a less formal teaching relationship and reciprocal. Don’t be fooled – you are still learning (perhaps more than ever before), still growing, as a musician.
You might move back and forth along these lines – as needed. And you might find all these in a single body. You might be in a regular relationship with one person, or you might go to all the workshops you can manage to get different perspectives and approaches.
Now for the tricky part – which do you need now? A good teacher will provide a bit of each of these, as needed, and in varied measures as you grow. Of course, early on, you will need more mothering. But don’t be fooled, I have more than one student who has come for lessons because, although they are advanced harpers, they recognized that they needed to go back to shape up their technique. And frankly, I’m grateful, because that helps keep me focused on examining my own!
It is also easy to slip into a crack – you might “outgrow” a teacher and decide you’re good on your own. And you probably are for a bit, but if you’re not actively teaching yourself (by doing all the things we expect the professor or coach to add to your learning), then you may lose ground, lose motivation, lose excitement. That would be sad. But it’s easily fixed by finding another teacher.
Remember that, like hairdressers, teachers understand that sometimes it’s not a good fit, or something has changed and you’re ready to move on. And like a good hairdresser, a good teacher will be sad to see you go, but wave you a cheery fare-thee-well and look forward to seeing you at a harp event soon!
Do you have a teacher for where you are now? Which teacher is the right fit for you? Are you in between? Let me know in the comments!
* I will stick a caveat in here – if you are geographically constrained and don’t live close enough to have in person lessons, be sure that your online option is a good teacher. One downside to everyone having an internet connection is that anyone can say they are a teacher – and as a beginner, you’d be at their mercy. Caveat emptor. In addition, if you are taking lessons online (and any competent teacher will tell you this…in fact, if they don’t, reconsider their competence) – go to workshops to work with other teachers in person whenever humanly possible. There are amazing options like the Ohio Scottish Arts School, Somerset Folk Harp Festival, the Harp Gathering (which I’ve not participated in but have heard great things about), Feis Seattle (again, I haven’t been to this, but I know a guy), Catskills Irish Arts Week (again, haven’t been but I hear good things), or individual workshops anywhere near you – and you will learn incredible things, and not just about playing the harp! Go! This isn’t an exhaustive list, just a sampling, just go!
** The Coach refers to an approach to teaching and isn’t necessarily someone who is presenting as a coach. It’s about the approach not the title.
Don’t be afraid to take a sample lesson as an interview. Personalities are important both to what you learn and your sense of self. (Dont ask me how I know this).
So true!
Excellent blog- most of us don’t think about this but you nailed it Jen. It’s become so true for me- I work with different people at festivals and for specific pieces- mentors have really helped me advance my playing and arranging skills.
Thanks Robin. I really enjoy the energy you get (and share) from this approach!
well said. a timely reminder that I could use some “adjusting”. online is tricky for me, i seem to need someone standing there- or i think i do….
hmmm
have connected with Sue on and off. helpful.
I agree online is tricky – for just about everyone. You are probably very externally motivated (don’t ask me how I know this!) and that connection and expectation is helpful but is also a double edged sword.